TGIF #11: Passwords
an elegy on authentication
Passwords are my nemesis.
Last year, more than 1 billion people were affected by thousands of data breaches, and cybersecurity is big business. I am grateful for some of the newer tools developed to protect our identities and manage the authentication across devices, sessions, and applications. But I will admit I’ve been slower to adopt the “suggested” password feature, as somehow I (incorrectly) feel I’m better suited to permission myself vs. a sophisticated hacker.
Passwords aren’t unique to our digital age. The Roman military used “watchwords” to allow access to guarded areas, and one whispered a password to gain access to speakeasies during prohibition. In 1960, the first digital password was created at MIT to allow users to access unique computer files on a shared mainframe. It didn’t take long for the first data breach to follow two years later, and thus began the parabolic growth in the necessity and invention of our digital identities.
All of this got me thinking about my identity and how it has changed over time. Then I wrote this poem.
Passwords
Who am I? Cursor blinking, I forget, again. Auto-fill takes over, helping me complete a prior version of myself, but no dice. Sensing my lapse, a Passkey window pops open suggesting I thought ahead, storing a former me. Sadly, only blanks. Admitting defeat, I must reset. A deep sigh, more Me’s to remember. It feels too early for big decisions and I can’t bear the cryptic combination my machine suggests. What part of SZ*12Hsbrzgy26! feels like the key to me? And so I create a new password that won’t be the last, a subtle twist on something familiar, until the next forced reset. By Heather M. Coughlin (2024)
workLIT Memo:
The concept of identity has probably always been ripe for poetry. It carries a lot of responsibility for how we view and interact with the world and can change over time. Identity is defined in social science as the set of qualities, beliefs, personality traits, appearance, ethnicity, and/or expressions that characterize a person or a group.
This year, I’ve thought a lot about the concept of professional vs. personal identities—where they converge and diverge for some people, and change over time. Like you, perhaps, my identities have evolved over several chapters of roles, experiences, and levels of responsibility. And yet there are parts of my identity that are fixed. Lots to think (and write) about on this one…





This one had me smiling. I finally gave up and gave in to the suggested strong password. But I don't like it....not one bit!
Definitely feeling the change in passwords right now as I lost my work email when retiring in June which I had been using for both professional and personal use for 16 years. Now I am having to reset passwords for countless accounts which I lost access to. So strange to be reconnecting through a new email address and also redefining my identity too! Calling it reFIREment as I find my way digitally and otherwise and reconnect to old Me’s while defining a new Me too!